More than a year after I came out to my parents, I've finally decided to come out to my grandmother. I want to tell her before being open with my extended family because we're close (despite her living far away.) She's very liberal and an open supporter of marriage equality. I know she won't react badly, but I'm still nervous. I've decided to come out to her in an email, and I'm proud that I was able to write this without having an anxiety attack. So, here it goes (currently in a word document titled, "don't be chickenshit," will send it later this week): Hi Grandma, I’ve been wanting to tell you something for years now. I've wanted to call you and talk to you, but I have always chickened out. I love you and trust you, but I was still nervous. Am nervous. I thought I had to be brave, but I’ve come to understand that I don’t. I just need to be honest. So here it goes: I’m gay. Thanks for reading this. I can’t wait to see you this summer. Love, [my name] Any suggestions? Or, "you can do this"s? (Both are very much appreciated.)
You can do it! ^.^ ^.^ I believe in you~! I came out to my parents in a letter. Much better than trying to get the words out face to face, lol. ^^
It seems fine to me. It's short 'n sweet and gets right to the point. I'm sure you'll do just fine and I wish you luck.
Go for it! The only thing stopping you is yourself, NOW TELL YOURSELF TO GET OUT OF THE WAY SO YOU CAN DO IT!
Thanks everyone! :icon_bigg She replied: "Can't wait to see you and [sister's name] and mom this summer. (4th of July). Glad you figured it out....love you always."
That's beautiful. You said it beautifully. If she doesn't understand I'm so sorry, but you have to be true to yourself.
Thank you very much everyone! :icon_bigg Posting this on here first really gave me the push I needed to just get it over with. Thank you so much for your kind words! Her response was positive. Feeling very lucky to have the family I do.