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Out and proud?... = out and anxiety.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by woodlandbats, Jun 6, 2015.

  1. woodlandbats

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    Hi all, need some advice or experience sharing?:

    I know that, when I do come out, I am NOT going to be the out and proud type of guy. I am too private for my own good and this may be the first thing I have turly ever shared to anyone. In my mind I wish I could just get on with my bisexual lifestyle but in my mind I know I will face confrontation and coming out to people is the best way to get me used to this confrontation in a safe environment. BUT, I know this will cripple me for a while, It is GOING to be too much. But i need to do it and I need to expect myself.

    I just worry that I am going to be in and out of the closet my whole life, any tips? I know its part of my identity and I shouldn't be ashamed, but I just came hold back the anxiety. Like, I become a nervous wreck for a week if I have to tell my housemates to do their dishes?! How am I ever going to manage?!

    Thank you :S