Is he gay?

hmm just bring it up like start talking about what you like in boys/girls and why etc see what he says. By then you could even mention whether he is gay or not?

 

Alright. Well, let's see. You told him you were gay. Normally that's a factor that would push a straight person away, rather than attract them to you. I'm not saying he's gay for sure, but that sure as hell sounds like something I've done when I found out someone was gay. HAHA

 

depends what reason the one who thinks he is gay thinks that. If they have a good grounding, then the one who doesn;t might be against gays or just not have noticed yet

 

Well do you like like him?

Joke around with him a bit. The next time he flirts with you say "You'd better stop before I start crushing on you... sexy" xD
And then see how he responds.

If he keeps flirting then I'd just keep flirting back..
but this might be bad advice.. it's just what I'd do

 

just say somethign like "lol love you too!" or "whatever *cheesy grin* ". Check out his responses and yea, flirt around and see how it goes... I've done that and it's fun even if they are straight Don't let him just play you like a puppet though. I've done that too and it's not fun

 

hmm yh when you suddenly realise that all that;s happening is he's mucking around with your feelings and getting kicks (not sexual kicks, just spiteful enjoyment :O), and there's no chemistry or whatever. That's not fun, and you can tell if that's happening cos another day they might just turn round and be real nasty for no reason. That's what's happened to me before and I try not to talk to them any more

 

yeah he's probably not, I'm just saying why to be careful with him or anyone else in the future

 

yess very likely... that's how I thought my friend was (until i realised he just found it funny) althouugh I still kinda think he's confused.

Allow hiim to talk to you about anything. Get to know him better so you can easily start a conversation with him about anything you like and not feel awkward about it. Maybe tell him how confused you were before you accepted your sexuality and came out (if you were awkward, which I'm sure you must have been at some point!). He might then feel more comfortable, and might say something giving you chance to have a "heart to heart" if you like... something where you really open up to each other. I came out to one friend when I was sleeping over his (not in the same bed lol >.<), just cos we got talking about it and I felt comfortable telling him.

 

Now look who's stereotyping.


No=one knew i was gay at college...when they found out some people did the exact same thing. I know for a fact they're straight, they just do it sometimes for whatever reason.


But, if you're really curious, just ask who he likes and what girls and emphasise the OR guys as in, you couldn't careless if he was, nothing would change kinda way.

aha.

 

cool glad to be of some assisstance, hope it all made a bit of sense

I'll wait to hear the outcome, and it's prolly best if you do it asap so you don't get scared

good luck with it