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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by whattodoii, Jun 10, 2015.

  1. whattodoii

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    I don't know if I want to come out.
    I sometimes have this feeling, like: I'm gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayy, but mostly they're just moments, but I've had this feeling for like 3 days straight :slight_smile:b pun intended) :/
    I just really don't know how they would react, though I know they're not homophobic..
     
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    I used to have moments feeling like I am gay, but then it kind of became all day rather than just moments. Now I realise I am gay and that is who I realise I want to be. I'd recomend waiting until you fully understand your emotions and see if they become bigger.
     
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    Well, like I said earlier I been having these moments/feelings/days for quite some time. I don't think anyone fully understands their emotions though...
    If I were to come out to my friends, how do y'all think I should do it?
     
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    If you think it would be easier (just to gauge their reactions) you could try dropping hints at first like talking more about LGBT+ political issues or talking about hot girls or girl celebs you may have a crush on, things like that. If you're friends aren't homophobes, they'd probably be okay with it. You could tell them all at once if you're with a group of them. Or you could just tell one at a time to ease into it slowly. Whatever feels more comfortable. Good luck!<3
     
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    I understand what you mean, I've been having similar feelings/days, so you're not alone :slight_smile: Good luck! (*hug*)