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Not a sad post, just have to get this out of me.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Pendrin2020, Dec 10, 2008.

  1. Pendrin2020

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    IIII''MMMMMMMM BI! YAY! i CAN SAY IT WITHOUT FEELING ASHAMED! i'M NOT ATTACHING DISCLAIMERS ANYMORE! I CAN LOOK AT A GUY WITHOUT FEELING LIKE IT'S WRONG. i CAN LOOK AT A GIRL AND FEEL THE SAME WAY. I'M NOT AFRAID OF BEING SEXUAL ANYMORE YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!

    Sorry, I just logged on for the first time like a week ago and about two days later, I started feeling different. I've worked so hard to accept everything else about me. This was the final piece of the puzzle. It's OK to be sexual. It's OK to be me. I just had to find people with the same problems and get out of the isolation I'm in. (not much of an alternative scene in my small town).

    Just wanted to share this with you. everything I had regarding my sexuality up to this point was theory. I knew I liked both but was too ashamed to do anything outside of one-night-stands with shady characters that made me feel like a total slut.

    I never got to experience, the meat and potatoes of being me. Don't get me wrong, I was really screwed up before i got sober. And after that I was reasonably happy, but now I'm jumping up and down like a school girl and I don't bloody care!

    Yeeeeehaaaaaaw, It's time to learn who I am....again.

    Thank you God.
     
  2. Kid Quasar

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    That's epic! It's an awesome feeling when you come to terms with your sexuality. And congrats on being sober.

    I may join you in bouncing up and down ^^
     
  3. crimsonarcher

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    I'm happy for your successes!
    :grin:
    congratulations!
     
  4. george678

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    Well done for accepting yourself.
     
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    Welcome to the other side. Life kicks ass over here. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
  6. Tim

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    err, Congrats? It's weird saying Grats like that, but it's awesome you finally accept yourself :grin:

    My friend is obsessed with Banjos (sorry, couldnt help but notice ur location XD)
     
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    Welcome to the real world! Let's rock!
     
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    Congratulations! It is an awesome feeling that will keep getting better from here.
     
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    Gratz!! :grin: Welcome to the dark side...we have cookies. :wink: (Ok fine that was the worst joke ever...)
     
  10. Jim1454

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    I'm SO glad you're feeling that way! This really is an awesome site to help people come to terms with their orientation. Congratulations!
     
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  12. Pendrin2020

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    Thank you guys. I'm gonna be here for a while, lots of people to help. This place is awesome.