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not sure of my next move, please help

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Helpimconfused, Jun 24, 2015.

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  1. Helpimconfused

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    So I recently came to terms and identified myself as gender fluid. Now I'm not sure how to tell my parents, or of I even should say anything to them. I keep saying to myself just to not tell them, but I'm not sure that's such a great idea in the long run. Any advice would be greatly appreciated
     
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    Its hard to say if you should come out to your parents. What are they like? How much do you know about their stances on LGBT people and rights?
     
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    I know that my dad slightly disproves of homosexuality, but I have no idea about either of their stances on Trans or gender fluidity or anything
     
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    I don't know. Your situation is still unclear. Is there anything else?
     
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    I honestly don't know what else to say, and I am very ensure of their standing on the subject myself
     
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    If you tell them percisely how you feel I'd put money on them accepting you and loving you for who you are! (*hug*)
     
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    OK, thank you very much, lol do u have any tips on exactly how to do so
     
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    Its hard to tell you specifically, but yesterday I came out to my mom during dinner. Just try to find a time you have them alone; maybe before bed, or dinner, or something. I know ITS SUPER DIFFICULT :icon_sad: but if you just try I think you can do it! (*hug*)
     
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    Thank you soo sooo much! You are a huge help, I really appreciate the advice, thanks!!(*hug*) :thumbsup:
     
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    No, thank you! If you ever want to talk more, just post on my wall. (*hug*)
     
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