Im transgender, not out yet, depressed, at my breaking point, feel this intense rage and anger at my self for holding it in so long, Im tired of my own cowardice and refusal to do anything about it, I feel a storm brewing, any advice would be most helpful, I may snap and come out soon even if I am not quite ready.
I say try to relax. Learn to accept yourself for who you are. If you're not ready to come out, that's ok. There is nothing wrong with that. When you're ready, you will come out. Dying worry about it. In fact, being scared to come out is normal. You are not a coward. Maybe a good idea is to come out to one or two people you know or are pretty sure will accept you. That way, you have a couple of people to lean on when things get tough. Just relax and two people when you're ready. Don't worry about it.(*hug*)
Don't think your a coward, just joining a good community like this is a good first step Besides even if you snap and end up coming out, atleast it will be off your chest. I think it is quite rare for someone to just know they're ready. ---------- Post added 30th Jun 2015 at 10:48 PM ---------- Also, I don't know if you're into it but I find meditation helps me alot to let go of my worries... even if for just a little bit
