I'm debating coming out to my best friend on msn. We're always chatting on msn together till like 3 in the morning everyday and it would definately be easier that way but what if it's all akward after in person? Plus she's the one I'm most scared to tell cause all my other friends are open minded to the idea but her i jokingly said once "i'm sick of guys i'm gonna b a lesbian" and she said if ever u were a lesbian i wouldn't talk to you anymore :eusa_doh: geeze i don't know if she was joking or what what do you guys think?
Well I came out to my best friend and he was cool about it, but I don't know about your friend after what she said. But think about it, if she really is your friend and you two are so close why would she care? Personally, if I came out to someone and they didn't accept me, I'd be grateful to know that they really didn't care about me. This is coming from someone who's only out to one person, but still, I'd be glad I could focus my energy on someone who really did care.
yah it was a really mean comment on her part and we've known eachother for over a decade but that comment really scared the shit out of me lol
well are you sure she actually meant it?? Maybe bring it up to her one day in a joking way? like "Did u really mean u wont be my friend if i'm a lez?" I dont know but if you are really comfortable with her, then i think it might change her opinion if she knows someone who is lez
If you want her to know that you are a lesbian, just ask her if she meant the comment and say, because I am. If she is a true friend she will apologize and accept you. If not then she was never a real friend after all. You can say "It is who I am and if you can't accept this part of me then we should go our seperate ways." You can also assure her that you are still the same person you were before coming out. Let her know that you feel comfortable enough with her to share this news, she just might surprise you!!! Good luck with whatever you decide to do and let us know how it goes.(&&&) (&&&)
lol she made that comment a couple of years ago so i doubt she'll remember but she's super quite and i know for sure shes gon be akward around me! but damnit i need her support!
aaawww Sugar, you gotta believe in yourself and you gotta be strong to. Well, ok, here is the thing: just tell her when you are ready, think carefully about what we said, especially Thomnthomn, you have to trust in urself as well Well, but remember, be ready if she reject you and wanna stop being ur friend, I just want you to be ready for any outcomes, and Good luck*huggle*^^(*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (&&&)
that means you are not ready yet, so dont tell, I believe that you can sense when is gonna be the right tine to come out to her^^ Good luck Awww dont be scared (*hug*)
yea if she dosn't accept who you are than in my opinion she isnt someone you should be friends with. good luck and i hope it all works out ok(*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*)
