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My brother now knows I'm gay.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by gillisland, Aug 9, 2015.

  1. gillisland

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    Last night my step-brother and I were having a debate. This was a about if my other brother was gay or not. I didn't think so, but he did. At one point, I forger why, he asked me if I was gay and that's when I actually came out to him.
     
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    Awww that's a very brave thing to do. How did he take it?
     
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    Well, we're need a bit more info, like how he reacted, how your home life is with your family, and where you live in the world with others around you.

    I was in the closet until I was like 19, before that, I would look at gay porn in secret on the pc and keep them held from others looking in my files. My older brother hacked into them back then and one night when we got into an argument, he told me he knew about the gay stuff on the pc, and threatened to tell mum.

    Turned out it wasn't any kind of threat, because mum said she figured it out years ago anyway, and just wished I'd come out sooner, afterward giving me a big hug.
     
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    He asked me and he was fine with it I guess and he livestablished in a different house, but we're on a trip together in San Francisco which is sort've weird because it's a very openly LGBT area.
     
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    best place to come out then ^^, scope out some bars while your there.
     
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    The only problem with thathe is I'm 13 O.O
     
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    oooh right, sorry, didn't see your age.
    Thats would be a problem, well just enjoy your time there, and take relief in the fact your brothers obviously cool with it
     
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    That's how i feel i want to come out, is tell my brothers since their not my parents and there's more of a bond then with my sisters. Any ways have fun in San Francisco