Im sure many of you want to come out despirately but cant find the words or you cant think of a way to get onto the topic , ive been strugling with finding a way to start a convosation that will lead to the topic so tell my mum im gay and i want people to know im gay as it isnt obvious , ive come up with a way , and im so happy with it , i recently opened a bank account and you can personalise your card with a picture , so i thought , why not put something with rainbow colurs that is obviously lgbt , and hopefully my mun will ask , why did u get that people will think your gay and i can reply , because i am and we can talk about it , or she will say something that i can respond with coming out , this will also hint to people in the new college im starting in September that im gay , does anyone have anything to comment , ide love to hear your thoghts , i thought ide share this incase it helps anyone else , ive found a uniqe way of coming put and it will definitely make for a cool story
That's a neat idea! I always wanted to do something like that, where my mom says "people with think you are gay" and I can just go from there. I like that idea, and I hope it works out
That's actually a great idea. I might do that one day, but I would do what AsiaJ33 said. I would take it from "why are you doing something that would make you look gay". Also, when and if you do this, tell us how it went.
I think it's a great idea, for those who still live with family that are accepting.. & may not have a negative reaction, but It may be a bad idea for those who come from family who aren't as a supportive, & for other people.. they may not immediately catch on unless you tell them. A rainbow can mean something else to some people; as for your case, I think it's an interesting way of coming out, I hope your family is accepting; but on the cautious side, I just hope you're aware of your parents personality, & how they may react.. either way, I hope it works out.
Thanks everyone , and thanks for the concern ^ but im sure itl be fine , il keep u posted when it happens but uve got to wait a week for it to come . I still never thoght ide say barclays bank would be the thing that helps me come out to my mun
Haha...that's a neat idea. I have a few family members to come out to. I talked to my mom and dad about doing a kind of 'game night' and I tell everyone else through charades.
