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so...i think im out.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Dazed, Dec 28, 2008.

  1. Dazed

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    ok everyone i know knows im into girl besides my family.
    which im sure they kind of know by now...
    but just a few minutes ago as i was coming up the strairs i was telling my dad that i would rather be a man the a women anyday(not really, but he calls all women b!itches and such)

    and he was like yeah i can kind of see that about you.
    you would rather fu*k someone then be fu*cked.
    then he added oh and when your done with whats her name send her my way.
    and i was like her who? and he was like tylers sister(my best friend)
    and i was like ew i would never with her haha.


    so what do you guys think...it seems like they know...
     
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    Wow. I wouldn't know what to make of that. Like a sea of awkwardness.
     
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    It sound like they know and it also sounds like your dad is... well a pig or just weird. If that qualifies as being out I guess I'm out to my parents.(they are really suspecting at least, but i think they know)
     
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    my whole family is weird.
    and my dad is having some mid life crisis or something and wants all my friends...which is why none of them come over anymore...
     
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    By the sounds of it I think they might know. Which is fine. Your dad was taking it in a joking way and seemed okay with it. Maybe you should consider talking to them in the near future or something just to make sure? Goodluck. :slight_smile:
     
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    wow creepy *is dissgusted* my dad doesn't hit on younger women. No he's more of an alcohal abusing compulsive gambler himself, oh did I mention angry and homophobic?
     
  7. Dazed

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    the only reason i havent told them is when my sister thought she was bi she told them and they called her dyke all the time ...which i hate that word..its just such a rude thing to say.

    i dont care too much if they know i never bring anyone home anyway..haha
     
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    I think he knows. Personally I think that was very crude. I would just ask that he be respectful.
     
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    blah whats bad about my dad though is he is still married to my mom! >_< haha

    im sorry about your dad...
     
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    im more mature then my dad and he is 42...i think somewhere around there.
    he also is high alot so i try to forgive his lack of brain cells.
     
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    i know >_< my life is always awkward


    and i just wanted to say...you look alot like my old ecology teacher...
     
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    Yeah I know how hurtful words can be, but I wouldn't know how it is coming from your own family. I'm sorry to hear that. And being bi definitely doesn't deserve to be called that, and either does being gay. Well there you go. If you don't care if they know that's even better for you. And seeing as you never bring anyone home, I don't see it becoming a problem. Although I don't know your family or situation with them. (*hug*)
     
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    i was just telling one of my friends i should bring home a girl and see what happens...but one i would have to find a girl and 2..well they are moving in a month or so anyway haha
     
  14. Even though it was joking ish he seemed like he may know and be alright with it. But yeah if he's gonna call you dyke and stuff maybe it's better not to say.