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When did you have your first boyfriend?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by justinishere, Dec 29, 2008.

  1. justinishere

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    Hello Everyone! Hope you had a great Christmas :slight_smile:

    I was just wondering around the forums as usual and noticed that a lot of people post about their boyfriends and how they need advice. But I have seem to notice that a lot of them are younger that I am (Under 15). So I was just wondering, how old where you when you had your first boyfriend?
     
  2. Derek the Wolf

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    Officially, we're still working on it. :dry:
    Unofficially, 16.
     
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    I haven't really had a partner yet. At 18. Yeah, not good for the self-esteem. There was one girl who I consider my ex now, but we were never exactly together. It's pretty hard to explain, but basically, she made a whole heap of false promises but never committed. I sort of casually dated a couple of girls this year, but it definitely wasn't any sort of real relationship with either of them.
     
  4. ColbieMarie

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    Uhm...I "went out" with a boy back when I was 14...yeah that lasted a whole 3 days. I've gone on a few dates but definitely nothing anywhere near serious. I try to avoid that stuff. I'm 20 and w/o a relationship.
     
  5. Mind Freak

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    When I was 15, first girlfriend in 5th grade; obviously nothing serious.
     
  6. brasilboy1

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    I was 29 when I had my first boyfriend. I hope another won't take that many years to find.
     
  7. SAGUY84

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    First and only one, when i was 21.
     
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    i know exactly how you feel i have dated so many girls its not even funny (starting in like kindergarten) im even in a relationship with a girl right now (she knows im gay and im trying to get out of it) but thats because im trying to prove im straight i know dumb right. But i have never been in a relationship with a guy i have been asked out twice by guys but i turned them down because i didnt like either of them, i was almost in a relationship with one because we talked all the time but i still said no in the end.The one guy i asked out turned me down because i am to girly ugh but yea my love life sux
     
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    Well never really unless you count online relationships
     
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    My first boyfriend was in the 8th grade and I was either 13 or 14.
     
  12. This year, we started dating a few months before my 18th birthday.
    We broke up probably 4 months ago.
     
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    my first just recently (23yrs old)
     
  14. Never. I'm not interested in dating and I'm not changing that any time soon.
     
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    Never had a girlfriend or boyfriend.

    It sucks. :frowning2:
     
  16. SAGUY84

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    How come your not interested in dating?
     
  17. Jacobs

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    Never had one.
     
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    Don't worry, you're normal. I haven't had a bf or gf for like six years. Did some sleeping around (DO NOT recommend it), but other than that I've been celibate and single for like 10 months now.
     
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    ive had one boyfriend last year. So i was just 17...was pretty serious,nearly 5months, but apart from that nothing ever lol
     
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    First boyfriend? I was fourteen.

    First girlfriend? Yet to happen...but I'm not forcing the issue. Girls confuse me, lol.