Is he trying to come out?

110% Gay.

Gayer than a Macy's Day Parade.

 

lol but that just turned into a triple post ha. I wish this sorta thing happened to me, he's def most likely gay/bi, more likely bi if he's so affectionate with his girlfriend (and the mere fact he has a girlfriend), so that's really interesting. Does he know about you, if your gay/bi/straight/whatever? and if not, maybe "coming out" to him would further uncover the secrets that may lay b4 you. Who knows? figure out what you're gonna do first. I know its a tough position you're in too, liking both the guy and the girl he's goin out with. But who knows, maybe you'll become closer friends. or maybe he's just trying to get you involved with a threeway b4 you leave NJ lol (movie reference haha)

 

yeah i totally hear ya man, i hate labeling myself, i only wrote bisexual up there cuz i know I like girls and guys. I'm just confused as fuck. anyway, what he said was definitely a test. like, idk, just talk to him.

 

Gaydar level 10.

I wish my friends would come up to me and say that. Your so lucky. :x

 

Maybe just ask him what he meant by that question. And if he ignores you further, it's definitely a sign that he's gay/bi. And if he talks to you, there are only two ways that can go. He's either gay or not. And at least you won't be sitting at 3am wondering anymore =].

 

lol yeah, basically eveyone else is right. Good Luck with whatever happens. I'm sure everything will turn out for the good, I hope it does.

 

He's probably hinting he's gay. I would talk to him more about it and see what's going on.

 

Pull him to one side and just gently ask him about it. It sounds more than likely he is bi or gay and that might just have been the biggest step he took in addressing it and then it was too scary so he backed off. But its great that he was able to take this step foward with you.

 

He probably is, but don't force it out of him...maybe have a greater convo about it.

 

the word "curious" springs to mind.

 

I think he is trying to test the waters with you. I wouldn't press him too much unless he brings it up again.

 

He sounds pretty gay to me but maybe he's just wondering if your gay. My friend/crush does this to me all the time and I can't tell weather he is wondering if I'll reject him for his sexuality or weather he knows I'm hidding my sexuality from him... very confussing.
He will say something like "that famous artist is really talented even though he's gay" and then wait for my reaction.