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Is she on my side or not on my side?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by FootballFan101, Aug 25, 2015.

  1. FootballFan101

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    Ok so a few days ago I came out to my mum that I was asexual and questiong my gender she said that its just my hormones being imbalanced and she went through a similar stage in her childhood. And she says Im too young to be attracted to anyone (I know that is wrong becuase most people feel sexual attraction when they are 9-11) she then said that if I still feel the same way in 1-2 years she will accept me for who I am this conversation put me back on the questioning label.
     
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    Definitely on your side. She wants the best for you. Indeed, life isn't all about relationships, but she thinks you'd be better off with someone.

    I just want to suggest that you understand her and actually let time decide. Don't label yourself and see where you get in a couple of years. Chances are you were right all along. Just don't rush into a premature coming out which could prove harmful is what she's trying to say.
     
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    Oh thanks I think you helped me get it
     
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    Ask her if she knew she was straight at 13
     
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    She'll probobly say no
     
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    She seems to be a little surprised. Give it some time and she will grow more accepting of the fact.
     
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    Aye, she seemed shocked