i just came out of the closet...i told a girl about a guy i fancy and she or him havent been on since except him to say he doesnt believe im gay...i think she told...should i be paranoid
Welcome to EC! You say they haven't been "on". You mean online? Well, if you want to talk to either of them in-depth about it, don't sit around waiting - contact them direct. If you have a phone number, call them. If not, send them an e-mail. Explain what you'd like, and then end by saying "Let me know if you have any questions. And thanks for being a great friend." Lex
ah...i dont like phone calls...also i only have the boys phone number...im also bad at in-depth letters...or emails...hence the dots...
My opinion is that some things really DO need to be discussed on forums other than text and IM. Because it's necessary to make sure everybody is on the same page, and that nothing gets misconstrued. This is one of those times. Your e-mail doesn't have to be really lengthy, but it should be clear as to what you want you want to say. Lex
how would i put it though? like this?: i told molly i fancy you...you havent been on msn since...did she tell you? and to her?: did you tell adam i fancy him? ps:why havent you been on msn?
I wouldn't bother telling Adam you fancy him just yet. It's best to keep "I'm gay" and "I'm interested in you" as two separate pieces of news. And don't worry about whether or not they're on MSN - you have other ways to contact them. I'd contact Molly first, since she's the one you've talked to about it. "Hey. Last time we were on MSN, I told you I was gay and fancied Adam. Since then, Adam came on MSN really briefly, just to say he didn't believe I was gay. Did you tell him that I fancied him? If you did, well, I kinda wish you hadn't. I wanted to approach him in my own way. If you haven't told him yet, please don't. Hit me up when you have a sec, because I'd like to talk to you some more about this." Lex
ok thanks..ill ask her another day...maybe explain to adam face-to-face...he did ask if theres anyone in our school i fancy so i feel kinda mean lieing to him.
