Ever since I started this account Iv realized just how alone and empty I feel having no one know who I truly am. I'v been told many time here to come out to close friends, problem is I don't really have friends. I haven't really had friends since I graduated high-school and moved across town to my mom's. But then I thought about it, I do very much have close friends, My two brothers. Through out my life if I could depend on anyone it was them, especially after our parents divorced. And Iv come to realize how much it bothers me to lie to the two most important people in my life. So I'v decided to tell them, I know they will except me and love me just the same but I'm still a nervous wreck. I'v thought about doing it in a Facebook private message which is the easiest and most privet way for my to do it. Anyone got any advice for me? Or simple words of encouragement would be appreciated if nothing else. I'm starting to have anxiety attacks already.
I'm on your side! Don't back down... Like I did this evening, again. Well, if you know they will be supportive, why not? Also, fb private message is a great idea, in my opinion. I'll be here waiting for the results once you feel ready to do it, and have already done it
Just sent the letter. and let them know its there. I don't know what to feel first right now nervous at their response or relived that I finely told someone other then people I don't know on the internet.
I did it. I came out to my brothers and there responses couldn't have been better. Older Brother: You're telling me something I already suggested to you once. Younger Brother: Did you really need to ask, of course we'll still love you and we always will no matter what. And this isn't all surprising in fact I figured this was coming. That hurtle is jumped. At least i'm not alone in this now.
(&&&) Your brothers are awesome. I'm glad it all turned out well. So, are you planning to stop here or can we expect some more outings? :icon_bigg
That will be about It for now. I'll come out to my parents eventually but not right now. my life is all ready turbulent enough without adding the potential repercussions of coming out. :bang: I don't foresee their reactions being as good as my brothers. I foresee a lot of tears, guilt trips, denial, and skepticism.:icon_sad:
These are absolutely fantastic responses. Pad yourself on your shoulder! I can imagine the sense of relief you must be feeling. Well done!
I know I'm late to the party, but I'm so happy for you. :icon_bigg I wish I had brothers like yours. I can't even begin to imagine how relieved you must have felt. While I know it's very different to have someone supporting and loving you that you actually know personally, I assure you you were never completely alone. That's why we're here (&&&). We'll be here with anything you need when you feel that time is right. (&&&)
Don't get me wrong I know you guys are here for me and I truly appreciate that. If it wasn't for the support and encouragement from the EC community I probably would have never made this step. I'm sorry if I came off as unappreciative or rude cause you guys are the best (&&&). I't just that the way I grew up, as long as I have my brothers I could have nothing else and still be okay, they are my rocks and with them I can face anything.
Oh, no, not rude at all. I just wanted to emphasize our support, because I also know what it's like to feel alone, as I think do most of us. Yep. That's exactly how I feel about my few close friends, so I completely understand and respect that
