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Help meeeeeeee!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Zippyisocute, Sep 9, 2015.

  1. Zippyisocute

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    Okay, I've gotten myself in a bind. I told my friend that I was bisexual a few months ago, but since then I've been thinking about it an realized that I was full on gay. So, I need to re come out to her without sounding like an indisivive little twat. Help!
     
  2. Awesome

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    Explain to her that you have since then realized that you are gay. It is actually pretty common for people to come out as a few different identities before they are completely sure. If I have learned anything in the past two years, it is that the more you worry about your impression, the more anxious you will feel.
     
  3. alli o

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    go for it! I don't think she will think you are an "indecisive twat" I think she will understand and if not you could always wait month or two so it seems like you have made up your mind for sure. An my last option I think would just to only date girls and adventaly they/she will figure out you don't really have a thing for boys at all
     
  4. Chicagoblue

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    If she accepted the "bi" thing my guess is that she'll find it VERY easy to accept Gayness. Bi can confuse people.