a question most people im sure will have asked themselves: do girls like gays more than straights (as friends) or do girls like gays more than boys like straights well i personnally think yes as friends for example: i recently told a few girls and a few guys. the girls are nicer since (and i have even become alot closer with one of the girls) and the boys have been the same. does anyone else have any experiences like this?
the girls probably feel safer(more comfortable?) around you and the guys.... maybe they want head? lol
I told a girl I used to live with that I'm going out with her lifelong best (male) friend and she was utterly shocked.... but is now a lot more open with me, partly because I think she was worried before that I *liked* her! I imagine the idea that there is absolutely no threat of sexual tension appeals to a lot of girls. Hence the "gay best friend" thing.
I think girls can relate to gay guys easily as they both share common attraction for men And I agree with Johnny, the sexual tension's not there, so it's very easy company; I think everybody worries a lot about how they come across to people, like if they talk to long to one guy, it'll be taken as they fancy them, and they don't want to be rejected for it. Humans are very social beings and we care hugely about want other people think of us. As for straight guys, I don't know, I can imagine it's quite different as they might feel uncomfortable that their friend doesn't share the same interests in girls. Perhaps even threatened, I'm only guessing here...
yeah in my experience girls definately LOVE gay guys lol. My best friend is a girl and we have an increadibly close bond,like a sister,which im sure would never have developped before i told her i was gay. Equally i wouldnt say that my male friends have taken it badly or anything,theyve just acted the same tbh. But yes ive always become closer with girls once ive told them in my expereince. I spose its coz its like a guy who they can talk to properly without worrying about coming across as flirting or coming on or anything like that,so its easier for them to get close to a gay guy than a straight one
i have the same experience! in school i have developed a close bond with my girl friends, and my guy friends are ok my sexuality but girls do like gay guys
