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Just came out to roommate/old friend!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by fxngirl, Sep 16, 2015.

  1. fxngirl

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    Today I moved into my new apartment for university with a close friend. We were having dinner and, at some point, I told her. I wanted to because, now that I moved to a new city for university, I don't wanna hide my sexuality. I was really nervous, but she took it well! She said, though, that I'll really know that I'm gay only when I have a crush on a girl, and I didn't like it because I felt like she was saying that I can't still be sure I'm gay. Anyways, I feel better now because I can finally be honest with her!
     
  2. TempUsername3

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    Well, I'm glad that everything turned out okay.

    Your roommate will open up a bit more and understand it better in time. Just needs a little exposure to the community.
     
  3. justin88

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    I'm glad it went well, congratulations! :slight_smile:
     
  4. confusedbubble

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    Congratulations hmmm maybe your room mate has something hidden as well. I think its not about having a crush as such its knowing and feeling that you don't want to be with a man, live with them or see yourself with them but you do with a woman