One of the people in my close group of friends is really homophobic he might not be my friend but he is close to one of my best friends and I think if I come out in this group of friends he might gossip about it. I am only 14 so don't want things spreading before I'm ready for them too. Please give advice:help:
If your friend is going to ditch you over that, then he is not worth having as a friend. Besides, you don't have to come out to him yet. You can come out to other friends and build a support system so that when you do come out to the homophobic one you have people to fall back on and vent to. Just tell them when you're ready, and remember you don't need to come out to everyone at once. In fact, it's probably healthier to take it one small step at a time. Good luck!
