:help:Coming out is really hard. And everybody here know that. Do you know or do you maybe have experience - how to say that I'm bisexual to mother? She accept everything, she's really tolerant. But not in family. Do someone know what I mean...? How to say that? I want her acceptance...and I really want to say that to her. I love her very much and I want her to know first. Or maybe it could be better to say that to best friend first? :help:
You don't have to come out to your mother yet if you aren't ready for that. If you think your best friend would be supportive of you, it may be a good idea to tell them first. Just tell who you feel the most comfortable with right now. Sometimes it's good to have someone like a friend supporting you, someone you can talk to about it, before you tell your family (since that can be a bit harder sometimes). I understand what you mean by your mother not being as accepting since your her daughter even though she normally is. Parents often seem to put so much expectation on us because they want us to have good lives. Telling her may change that a little bit, but that doesn't mean she can't come to accept you for the way you are. If you do think there's a chance she may be aggressive and harmful about it, then it may be safer for you to wait and tell her when you're not living with her. Every parent is different, sometimes they just need time to accept it first. Good luck!