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I just came out to my sister

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by aussielefty, Oct 19, 2015.

  1. aussielefty

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    Well, some of you may have read my other posts, about only having my brother and sister left in my family and a few other relatives here and there..but no parents around any more.


    any way was talking to my sister a little while ago on the phone, talking about some of my struggles (not everything yet) .., and I asked her how she would be if I told her I was gay,..
    not the way I had planned on telling her but she said she doesn't care about that.

    so looks like just my brother and then I'm pretty much out...
    holly sh*** I'm shaking all over .... so shaking I'm crying as I type..
    not sure how I feel now... cats out of the bag so to speak....

    S*****
     
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    Congrats. I'm so very happy for you:eusa_clap:eusa_clap
     
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    Time to take a fresh breath of the air outside the Closet. Congratulations. Relax life is good. Take some time and get use to the new you.
     
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    Omigosh! That's wonderful!!!!

    (&&&)​
     
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    Congratulations, hope all works out well for you! (&&&)
     
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    Congrats on coming out to your sister. I hope everything else turns out well.
     
  7. aussielefty

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    thanks guys, still waiting on my brothers response , we only talk via email these days...

    oh one thing I want to ask you guys.. my sister said no more secrets...
    but its not that it was a secret, I just wasn't sure of myself..
    and thats not the only aspect of my life I'm unsure of..
    so how much do I tell her ?
    they never tell me anything any way.. why is it just a one way street , just cause their much older than me?

    I do feel like a big weight has lifted off me, but I'm still a little wary of things ...
    am I ok thinking like this too?
     
  8. aussielefty

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    just heard from my brother

    he just said, glad your happy and that was it...hmmm

    strange !!
    better than yelling and screaming I guess..:icon_wink