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Son Of A Monkey!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by -Michael-, Jan 12, 2009.

  1. -Michael-

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    My facebook account is set to interested in men.


    My cousin just added me...
    Because he's in 'my network' he can see my profile before I accept him...

    Which means he could have seen this bit of information...

    I'm not fussed he has, I don't ever really see him.

    But he DOES see my grandad.

    Who is set in the old ways.

    Not my grandad isn't like your grandad...

    He's basically a tank on legs...
    68 and he can still life railway sleepers by himself.

    Now...
    If he finds out, not only do I get disowned...
    but, in the name of my dead mother, he'll disown me from her.

    Then I'll never see him again....EVER.

    He'll probably hate my dad for keeping it from him...

    ...He'll be on his last legs soon...
    I can't have him find out...

    I can't email my cousin as ask "Did you read the bit that says I'm gay?"

    Because he may well not have...
    (I have now changed interested in and as unanswered...)
    But if he tells my Grandad... I'm basically going to commit D:


    What do I do!!?
     
  2. Ty

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    If he has seen it and asks you about it, just say a friend of yours changed it as a joke or something.
     
  3. Lexington

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    Nothing.

    Your cousin may have seen, but he probably knows your granddad like you know your granddad. And is probably more towards this generation's way of thinking than in your granddad's. In which case, he'll probably just think "Well, that's something to not tell granddad" and move on with his life.

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    "NOT A MONKEY!"

    Lex
     
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    nononono

    My cousin has an IQ that of a brick.

    He'd tell. Not knowing what it would cause.
     
  5. Lexington

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    Then tell him upfront.

    Lex