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I think I am

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ALongWalk, Jan 12, 2009.

  1. ALongWalk

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    So Im pretty sure Im gay. Ive had a few girlfriends and enjoyed the relationships usually but the sex lowered in over all satisfaction each time. I fantasize about guys yes and Ive always had "funny feelings" over guys, also experienced some physical stuff with a friend which turned out to be a mistake solely because of our friendship. All this and I cant squash the doubt of beings straight long enough to tell my best friend, which is what im planning on doing in a couple hours

    I know it needs to be done but then I think its impossible to come back from this, things will change and I need to do it for me, I think
    Anyone else ever been confused like this?
     
  2. silverhalo

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    Have been confused and still am, i think everyone is confused at for a least sometime.
    I know that probably not much help but i think you just have to go with what you feel is right, its just difficult because you get so nervous and there are so many emotions and stuff involved.

    Good luck
     
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    Confusions happens to lots of people all the time.
    I hope you figure it all out, nobody can tell you what you are.
    I would overall just go with the flow and date who you like.
    no need to think about who you should be dating.
    good luck!
     
  4. ALongWalk

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    thanks guys, that does help a lot
    every bit of support helps

    also i did tell my best friend, and it went really well. I think as well as it could have gone
     
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    i also was confused about being bi cause i kinda repressed that feeling, but now i accept it and that is good that you are figuring it out too =]
     
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    Fox kid, I love Pikachu! Also ALW, don't get so hyped on your orientation. It's just a small part of you right? Your still you with all your quirks and great ideas. I think once we play down the sexuality card, we are a thousand billion times more amazing! Stay cool dude
     
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    Excellent that things went well telling your best friend! :slight_smile:

    I can definitely understand the feelings of confusion & am sure many of us here can as well... like others have said, keep on following what feels right.