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What do I say??

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by 2qt2bblond, Jan 13, 2009.

  1. 2qt2bblond

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    So, I have this friend and i'm not sure if she's questioning her orientation (like I am). We hang out A LOT with our group of friends and during a movie or something (at a house, not the theater) we'll start cuddling. This'll lead to a kiss. after the kiss we cuddle some more. This only happens when we're with other people, not alone.
    I obviously need to talk to her about it, find out if she's feeling the same confliction I am and such... I really like kissing her and don't want her to stop if she finds out they are more to me than just playing around... what do i do?!!! i would realllly appreciate any advice on what to do/say...
     
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    Like, when you say kiss. Do you mean like a real quick kiss on the cheek/lips (pop kiss) or like a kiss kiss (tongue or no tongue)?

    I would talk to her about it. Just ask her why she does it. I know it's hard, but it's not completely putting yourself out there either. You're just asking a question, right?
     
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    when i say kiss i don't mean make out... but it's not really a peck either.
     
  4. badwolf104

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    You should definately ask her. Just ask her if she is serious when you kiss or if it is just a big joke.

    I don't know her so I can't really say what would happen if you outright told her how you feel.

    Good luck!