So I have made the decision to come out trans to my wife. I picked a day I hope will be good as we both have the next day off so we can stay up late after the kids are asleep because I'm sure there will be a lengthy discussion. I'm starting to have second thoughts about it but I know it's just cold feet because I was 99.9% sure about this a few days ago. Do you all have any suggestions for fighting back the nerves before the big talk? I don't want to end up chickening out and wasting more time.
