I've been best friends with this girl for eight years, and I still haven't told her I'm bisexual. I've told another friend, and I've decided that there is no need to come out to people for now unless they ask, but I'm still worried that she might feel betrayed that I didn't tell her first. Should I tell her of my bisexuality? I'm a bit nervous about the idea as well because I don't want the tight relationship we have to change because of something as trivial as whom I obtain a crush on. Please help me decide what to do, and thank you in advance. ^_^
I think perhaps you should tell her, you dont want her to find out from someone else, the only thing that can really change your friendship is if she feels hurt you decided not to tell her and she found out through someone else