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So I, uh...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Helicoprion, Nov 3, 2015.

  1. Helicoprion

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    I never said it here, but on the 8th of October I shipped out for the Navy's basic training. I had been enlisted since February.
    Last week ago today, I was medically discharged.

    I came home to find my home situation even worse than when I had left it. Coupled with the fact that I'm now trying to figure out Plan C, all the while starting a job hunt with no prior experience, and well, my mood has been less than pleasant.

    Before I left, I was very obviously conflicted. With my contract, it would have been six years of my life, and I was strongly considering coming out before and terminating my contract. Since I really don't have anything to lose now, I'm strongly considering coming out-I just really don't know when or how, and I'm worried it'll interfere with my job search and my school applications.

    If anyone has any advice, I'd strongly appreciate it.
     
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  2. Helicoprion

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    I wanted to update that I've made up my mind: I want to do it soon. I just have no idea where to begin, especially when it comes to transitioning.
     
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    You'll know when the time is right. Sometimes it may take longer for others.
    As for transitioning, have you talked to a doctor about it? Support groups? Researched?
    Its really good to look up all of this before making final decisions.
     
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    My primary care, yes. Research, I've been in the process of doing so since before I left. However, the only support group nearby is still too far for me to reach without a car, and I don't know how to drive.
    Come to think of it, a support group would probably be the best place to ask questions like the ones I have.
    I'll try and see what I can work out with a friend.
     
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    Best of luck with your journey!
    I think if you can get to a support group, even occasionally, it would be a great help.
    (*hug*)