Well, I did come out to her. Not on purpose, but I did. And I got a haircut. That was in maybe April, I think. Or May. Anyways, the same exact day I got a haircut she bought me a skirt. And now, nothing has changed. She still sees me as her daughter . I already came out to her! But I need to come out to her again. Like I already said, I didn't actually mean too come out to her then, but she didn't know that. She read something and thought that I meant for her to read that. B
Unfortunately, sometimes people need to hear it more than once! Often people will think that it's just a phase or think you meant something different than you really did (ie, a lot of trans men come out and people still think they meant they are a tomboy or a butch lesbian). I imagine it will be more successful this time, both because she already heard it once and because the coming out will be more planned and purposeful on your part. Good luck!