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Coming out issues...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by dylanisawsome19, Nov 18, 2015.

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  1. dylanisawsome19

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    So while I just recently(last 16 hours) came to terms with being gay I'm no in a place where I can't come out without jeopardizing my brother because of how Tennessee is with homophobia. I could probably get by with it with my friends who knew before I did. I just don't know what I can do right now.
     
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  2. YermanTom

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    There is on obligation on you to come out.
    You have just done an amazing thing - you have accepted yourself for being you! Many people take much longer to get to where you are now. So right now take a deep breath and realize how amazing you are. Give yourself time to get your head around things.
    With coming out you have to be ready and in a safe place for you.
    I know for me it took a long time for me to be comfortable with being gay. So take your time and learn to love yourself.

    and Congratulations to you......now its tine to enjoy life. (!) (!!) (*hug*)
     
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