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Big problem here guys

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by EWMK, Nov 20, 2015.

  1. EWMK

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    After coming out to my friend I seem don't want to talk to her. I think I'm the one who keep distance between us. So why? How to stop that? Help me guys
     
  2. questions4ever

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    Aw sweetie, don't worry. You are probably just subconciously worried about their reaction. Were they supportive? Make an effort to keep things as normal as possible. You're still the same you. You might need to tell him/her? Just tell them how you feel and that you don't want this to come between you guys. Hope this was somewhat helpful?
     
  3. EWMK

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    Actually she's really supportive, but I just don't know what to say, I don't want to talk about my secret/gender.
    She is the first one I have come out to if I try to act as usual(act like "normal")before her, that will be so weird.

    => I can't act like usual before her
     
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    totally normal. you guys will become best friends again after a while. when this was happening to me, I felt the same, but ultimately I was overthinking it and I ultimately just started chilling again.
     
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    That's completely normal, your friend obviously doesn't care that you're gay otherwise they wouldn't be talking to you, you just need to push it to the back of your mind and know they accept you for who you are and your friendship will go back to being the same