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Lonely gay man being bullied by 2 lesbians

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by CoolUser123, Dec 2, 2015.

  1. CoolUser123

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    Ok I know this is a pretty rare situation

    But what do you think should be done if a gay guy is in a class with 2 lesbian girls and they bully him for being a gay dude

    Everyone seems to be fine with lgbt but the lesbians bully the gay guy in class. Every time he walks by they always cover their nose and say "it smells poopy". They also say mean things like fecees, poooop, etcetera. They always ask stuff like "what happens if poooop going stuck in URlNE hole. It's embarrassing if they ask these questions in front if all the students!

    What to do !!!!
     
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    Yeah, that's just not on! They sound so very immature. and insecure IMO
    Is there someone you can talk to at school about this? Is there a support group?
     
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    How old are they?!? This is awful :frowning2:
     
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    Are they doing this to you or someone else?
     
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    I would pull them aside and ask what their problem is. Or perhaps just one of them aside since the 2 of them outnumber you. Ask them "are you that insecure with your sexuality that you need to make fun of mine? We're all born gay, do you pick on black kids for being born black? I don't walk into class and say it smells fishy: that would be rude. So why say those things about me? We're both different because of our sexuality, and we could be potential allies against bullying, yet here you are bullying me. Why?"
     
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    I don't know. Won't that be sexist if I say fishy vaginaI? By "poopy" they are referring to the anus.... Not penis
     
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    What they're saying about gay men is sexist. That goes both ways. You're responding with the same insult they just said to you. ...and yes, I know they're talking about the anus.

    I would talk to them about it. That's some serious bullshit when one gay person is bullying another.
     
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    I'm sorry they're doing this.

    If anything, you can always report them to the school office and write a complaint. Then the matter can be taken into action. It worked in my case.
     
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    Juniors in high school should be old enough to know better on that kind of incredibly immature behaviour and if the administration is aware of the behaviour they should be doing something to stop it.

    It's a sad fact of life, that even people in minority groups bully people in other minority groups. The two worst bullies I ever had in high school were a pair of closeted lesbians, who as part of their bullying campaign started rumors about how they thought I was gay.

    Internalized homophobia is a weird thing.
     
  11. CoolUser123

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    Yeah... It rarely happens so nobody really knows about it. However it does exist