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Need a hug....

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Mirko, Jan 23, 2009.

  1. Mirko

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    I thought that by the posting some of it last night I would feel a bit better. But some of the thoughts and feelings came back, so I thought I'll write it out again. I feel better by just writing it all out, and trying to find some closure in the words that I have written. But I think I still need some hugs......

    This is how I feel about you. You make me laugh and you make me cry. You are cute and I like you a lot. I think about you a lot. When I see you and you smile something happens inside of me. I can’t find the words to describe it. All I know is that you make me feel good. I’m getting nervous when I have to talk in front of you. I am afraid of saying the wrong things. I am afraid that your opinion of me will change. When you hugged me the other day, the feeling was indescribable. I wish I could hug you everyday. I wish I could hold you in my arms. I am in love for the first time in my life.

    You are awesome. I trust you. You are an important part of my life. Without you, I am not sure if I would be at the point where I am today. You have helped me by just being you. By opening up about your life, and experiences you have allowed me to open up about my life, my fears and worries. You were there for me when I needed to talk.

    I know that nothing will ever happen between us. But you know what? I am ok with that.
    I'm moving on as best as I can. And I know that I will get there. I keep busy by pursuing the things I like and love, by trying to get to know new people, by trying to get to know my friends better and yes even by talking with you. Without knowing it, you are helping me once again.

    In your own ways you showed me it is ok to be who I am. In your own ways you make me stronger. I can't ask for anything more. I can only ask and hope that we continue to walk down on the path of friendship together. Loosing you as a friend would be even harder on me. You being part of my life is one of the best things that has happened to me. I never knew that one person could have such an impact on me. I am happy that it is you. I would not want it in any other way. If I would ever do anything that would end the possibility of us continuing to develop a friendship, I wouldn’t be able to forgive myself. This is how important you are to me.

    I will never forget you. My only hope is that who ever ends up winning your heart realizes that you have great qualities. You are a great and wonderful person.
     
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    (*hug*)
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    >>>My only hope is that who ever ends up winning your heart realizes that you have great qualities. You are a great and wonderful person.

    This part applies to you, too. Go out there and find someone you can share them with. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Ahhh............ you made me cry! Its so hard to be totally in love with someone and want what is best for them while trying to take care of your own needs and wants. (*hug*)
     
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    I can relate to that, I know exactly what that feels like. *hugs*
     
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    Thank you everyone (*hug*)

    I think it is going to take a little while longer before I can turn the page completely. But hopefully it is going to be soon.

    Lex: I fully intend to do that!
     
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    I know what your mean! (*hug*)(*hug*)
     
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    group hug (&&&)
     
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    Aww....Asteroid

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    One day you will meet someone who really loves you and they will be really lucky to be with someone as grate as you *hugs* :slight_smile:
     
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    (*hug*), (*hug*) and :kiss:
     
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    (*hug*) I hope your friend appreciates what a great friend you are.:kiss:
     
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    *hug* I am certain that hugs will change everything!
     
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    awwww (*hug*)
     
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    Thank you everyone. (*hug*)

    Tonight I'll spend some time with a few friends to keep my mind concentrating on something else.
     
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    (*hug*)I've been there friend (*hug*)