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Making coming out video today, but scared to upload

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by animatedPi, Dec 14, 2015.

  1. animatedPi

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    So, I've decided to finally make my coming out video and post/upload it on YouTube. uncertain if I should upload it today though, maybe I should just wait until I know I am ready for it to be out there, or maybe I am just overreacting to it.
    I am ready aren't I, but I am unsure.
    So I'm just going to put the video up there, but only in private, when I feel that I am ready, I'm going to remove it from my private videos.
    I have already made a coming out video previously, well two exactly, but they weren't right, I was so stressed for some reason, the lighting was bad, the wind was blowing, and I don't think that it would get through to people.
    So I hope third times the charm

    Any ideas?
     
  2. xenu

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    Its hard to make suggestions without seeing the video, or the previous ones. At least show the first two, then I can comment.
     
  3. animatedPi

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    Just filmed it, I went through the old ones and the new one and I covered much more ground with it, and, I don't sound as stressed as I was on the previous ones I tried to stay calm, and I am glad for the result, just have to edit it now and then off to YouTube
     
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    Good luck, its pretty brave putting your feelings up for the whole world to see