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Can I 'change' my mind?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JetBlackHeart, Dec 30, 2015.

  1. JetBlackHeart

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    I'm really thinking about coming out to my parents in the next couple days as bi/pansexual but thing is is I'm pretty certain I'm bi/panromantic but I'm unsure if I'm fully bi/panSEXUAL, asexual, Demi sexual etc and I don't think I'll fully know until I've had the experience which won't be for years and years.
    So would it be wrong to come out as pansexual and not mention to them about possibly being panromantic asexual and then years down the line when I fully know, tell them I'm asexual (if it comes to it?)
    Sorry if that was super confusing :slight_smile:
     
  2. Secrets5

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    Hello,

    Yes, you can, sexuality and anything else personal to you isn't really anybody else's but yours so only you know yourself and nobody else can tell you what to feel. Sexuality can also change [through no decision of yours/anybody else's] so if this did happen for someone then they might want to come out again.
     
  3. JetBlackHeart

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    Hi!
    Okay, that's good to know. Thankyou so much for the reply! :slight_smile:
     
  4. arieltyler

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    sexuality is a fluid thing. it's okay if it changes! it's not set in stone