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Coming out to best friend, Advice please

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by BandQueen, Jan 5, 2016.

  1. BandQueen

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    I'm coming out as bi to my best friend, Hailey, tomorrow and I'm super nervous. She's going to be the first person I've told and I don't know what her reaction will be. Any Advice will help please :help:
     
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    I wish you the best of luck in your journey and congratulate you for this!!! Way to go girl keep us updated!
     
  3. DougTheBicycle

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    Just make sure that you take the time to explain your feelings. Don't do it at a time when you're going to have to leave right away, she might have some questions.


    I wish you the best of luck! :grin: Let us know how it goes! Stay strong! (*hug*)
     
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    I've recently come out to gay to my best friend (like a few days ago), so I can relate the fear (and pain) you feel. I did it in my own time...I took my time. It turned out well. She actually confessed that she had known for years, but didn't want to push me until I was ready to share it with her. However that is my story. Everyone is different.

    All I can say is that you shouldn't rush it. If you don't feel ready, then wait a bit. Hope it all works out for you.
     
  5. BandQueen

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    I know it's been a while but I told her today on the bus and she was 100% fine with it. She actually came out as pan to me too. Thanks for your alls advice it helped encourage me a lot