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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Gpfs, Feb 2, 2009.

  1. Gpfs

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    Well, i told myself that i was going to come out to my family today but i chickened out. I felt physically sick everytime i came close to it then just walked away. All day all that was going through my head was "am i doing this in the right order?" an "who should i tell first?"
    Now i hav decided to tell my friends first when we go out for a meal this week. It would be soo much easier so they can help me figure out how to tell my parents an sister.

    Is this a good idea?

    One of my friends definatly has an idea. We had a drunken conversation the other day about my sexuality an i was soooo close to coming out but stopped myself cause i didnt want to do it drunk. :frowning2: . Well, she said "you can come out to me, you know that right?" I felt so good after she said that :grin:

    p.s i just think im procrastinating but i cant help it :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  2. Lexington

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    >>>Well, she said "you can come out to me, you know that right?"

    Sorry - you're not going to get a bigger opening than that. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
  3. Gpfs

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    I know lol and im gutted i didnt tell her then but i dont think it matters that much. I just said "yea i know.." :slight_smile:
     
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    it sounds like she may even have an idea you might gay. and is just trying to amke you feel comfortable telling her
     
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    Once you do it, it honestly feels so much better.