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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by fallendream, Feb 7, 2009.

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  1. fallendream

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    i originally posted this in the anonimous section but now ive decided i need help so ive come to the correct section.

    anyway heres the story:

    girl-was good friends now we dont talk very much
    boy-her brother two years younger than us.
    me-fancy him^^

    hes good-looking he seems awesome and he hugs me/high-fives me in corridoors for no reason...im not sure whether hes straight or gay...does he like me or is he messing around? i dont know him that well either...and i suck at getting to know people so how would i do it?
     
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    i know they both have msn.

    the ages:
    mine-14
    his-dunno
    hers-13/14

    years:
    me-9
    her-9
    him-7

    were all english
     
    #2 fallendream, Feb 7, 2009
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    Then why don't you just talk to him :dry:
    Yea, I mean, he high fives u and all. Just talk to him. I heard small-talk and witt is in season :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #3 sexyalex, Feb 7, 2009
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    Alex is right, you need to talk to him and get to know him some more because at the moment you don't really know enough to know if he's straight or gay.

    Also at his age, he might not even be aware his sexuality and maybe trying to work it out. So don't push too hard :wink:
     
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    Do you have lunch together at all? If you do sit at the same table as him talk to him. If not go up to him say hi and invite him over to you place to watch a couple of movies or play video games.
     
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    i live in a diff town. also we rarely sit at tables and eat we just wander the school grounds ill try small talk and im known for my wit
     
    #6 fallendream, Feb 7, 2009
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    im hinting at his sis on msn for his msn...shes either playing dumb or doesnt get what im hinting at...any ideas without incriminating myself?
     
    #7 fallendream, Feb 7, 2009
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    Don't hint to her just tell her that you wanted his msn address. Tell her that he is cool and he would like to chat with him.
     
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    but she doesnt even know i know him would be awkward explaining it...man im such a wuss
     
    #9 fallendream, Feb 7, 2009
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    How about something like, "I bumped into your brother the other day. I was going to IM him just to say hello but I don't seem to have his address."
     
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    Just tell her that you have chatted a few times in school. He seems cool and have a few things in common and would like to chat with him online. Keep it simple you don't need to get into detail.
     
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    ive found a perfect way...her brother insulted me yesterday (dunno if on purpose or not) so im asking if she knows any yr 7 kids....then ill ask for their msns so i can be 'pissed off' with them :slight_smile:
     
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    if it works for you go for it!
     
    #13 EM68, Feb 7, 2009
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    well...shes gone brb...ill let you guys know if i get the addy...
     
    #14 fallendream, Feb 7, 2009
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    i didnt get the email...she wouldnt give me any year seven people emails :S
     
    #15 fallendream, Feb 7, 2009
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    its non-uniform day tomorow. im meant to be dressing up as a cowboy and dancing in the corridoor.

    but on a more serious note: i know im gunna get picked on for this and thats why im doing it. if i do this less people will be bullied 'cos people will be bothered about me more. also he was hanging around with us today and i just couldnt talk to him...(too scared) hopefully after he sees me making a fool of myself hell feel like coming out is no big-deal compared to pissing off half the schools bullies. or if hes straight it doesnt matter 'cos ill still have fun
     
    #16 fallendream, Feb 10, 2009
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    sorry for double post but.

    that was more of a rant but if you want to reply you can.
     
    #17 fallendream, Feb 10, 2009
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    he didnt notice me :frowning2: i had fun anyway. ill try talking to him in corridoors and such. ill probably fail at that too...
     
    #18 fallendream, Feb 11, 2009
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    im gunna try and get
    a) his email
    b) set up a day out for all my friends and invite him/his sister and tell her to bring everyone she knows.

    we have 10 days off school so its a great opurtunity
     
    #19 fallendream, Feb 12, 2009
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    with no-school how would i ask for his addy?
     
    #20 fallendream, Feb 12, 2009
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