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Coming out to friends

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by funsized, Feb 21, 2016.

  1. funsized

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    Only a few of my friends know about my sexuality. One teacher knows. If I want to start coming out to friends, is there any one way that I do it? Or does it depend on the person? I told my best friend Josh very easily. He's like my brother so he understood and still supports me.

    Should I keep my sexuality a secret from friends who are homophobic? What did you do to come out to friends? Is there any advice you can give me?
     
  2. mychemromance99

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    You came out to your best friend, that's awesome.

    I came out to my best friend without much hesitation. He is pro-LGBT, and then later I came out to all my close friends.

    The best way to come out to friends, in my opinion is to first test the waters. Bring up a topic about a LGBT celebrity, guage their reaction. Most of my friends were okay with it. So I faced no difficulty while coming out. If they are positive about it, go ahead. If not, if they are homophobic, it's best not to come out to them. It might ruin your friendship. Sucks, I know. But that's the best way to avoid any fallouts/fights.