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Ralphtruco · 12th Feb 2009, 07:40 PM

well first i know this isnt GLBT related but anyway it has been a problem for about a year
so, i have this best friend (angi :3) who has this dumbas* boyfriend that most of the time his great but sometimes hes quite and as* (V >_>). they have been together for about 9 months (short story he was a friend of mine and sacrifice EVERYONE for her)
hes always making her feel horrible ._. i know is not my place to tell her who to date and who not to date but.... is there anything that i can do to stop her?
talking to either of them is not an option (her: have tried so many times, him: he suposedly thinks that i dont speak to her xD, whos jealous of a someone your girlfriend sees as a girl anyway >_>)

12th Feb 2009, 07:45 PM

There is not much you can do, you just have to ride it out. It's always horrible to watch friends go through bad relationships, but it's a fact of life. All you can do is be supportive and be there for them.

Trace · 12th Feb 2009, 08:28 PM

I also agree that you have to ride it out. No matter how much it may kill you, you have to be supportive. You can also pull this friend aside and express to them how you feel, but other then that, there is not much you can do.

Sarah · 12th Feb 2009, 08:48 PM

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There is not much you can do, you just have to ride it out. It's always horrible to watch friends go through bad relationships, but it's a fact of life. All you can do is be supportive and be there for them.

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I also agree that you have to ride it out. No matter how much it may kill you, you have to be supportive. You can also pull this friend aside and express to them how you feel, but other then that, there is not much you can do.

i agree with them

Ralphtruco · 12th Feb 2009, 09:15 PM

waaah i know -.-" it just sucks right now he bein a complete AS* ruined her valentines day and was criying... waaah i wished i could do something to make them apart >_>

12th Feb 2009, 07:40 PM	#1
Ralphtruco Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: lots of people except family Age: 20 Posts: 138 Join Date: Jan 2009	help :D well first i know this isnt GLBT related but anyway it has been a problem for about a year so, i have this best friend (angi :3) who has this dumbas* boyfriend that most of the time his great but sometimes hes quite and as* (V >_>). they have been together for about 9 months (short story he was a friend of mine and sacrifice EVERYONE for her) hes always making her feel horrible ._. i know is not my place to tell her who to date and who not to date but.... is there anything that i can do to stop her? talking to either of them is not an option (her: have tried so many times, him: he suposedly thinks that i dont speak to her xD, whos jealous of a someone your girlfriend sees as a girl anyway >_>)

12th Feb 2009, 07:45 PM	#2
BitterEdge Guest Posts: n/a Tournaments Won: 15	Re: help :D There is not much you can do, you just have to ride it out. It's always horrible to watch friends go through bad relationships, but it's a fact of life. All you can do is be supportive and be there for them.

12th Feb 2009, 08:28 PM	#3
Trace Gamer and Rocker Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Location: San Antonio, Tx Age: 21 Posts: 74 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: help :D I also agree that you have to ride it out. No matter how much it may kill you, you have to be supportive. You can also pull this friend aside and express to them how you feel, but other then that, there is not much you can do.

12th Feb 2009, 09:15 PM	#5
Ralphtruco Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: lots of people except family Age: 20 Posts: 138 Join Date: Jan 2009	Re: help :D waaah i know -.-" it just sucks right now he bein a complete AS* ruined her valentines day and was criying... waaah i wished i could do something to make them apart >_>