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I think im gay please help me.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by NotaDragon, Feb 28, 2016.

  1. NotaDragon

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    Hi, i am a little confused about my sexuality. Im starting to think im gay. I dont want to not be gay. But if i am i want help coping with it. I find girls appealing, but not arousing. I dont watch any straight pornography or gay pornography. Now i know it is weird but i look at gay furry pornography. I know it is kind of weird but i dont know why it is so attractive to me i have also NEVER wanted or felt any attraction to animals and i still dont. I know nobody gay in my life and dont know how to come out of the closet. I am in my mid-teens please help.
     
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    Hey. Welcome to EC. So you aren't attracted sexually to girls, me too. I find them pretty sure, but like you said not arrousing. Do you find guys attractive? I know you said you liked gay furry porn, but this might just be a fetish. The REAL key to this dilemma is if you are attracted to guys or not. Comment back and based on that I can give further advice.
     
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    Hey man thanks for having the courage to step up and tell your story I'm the exact same way I can get off to girls but it don't feel right I find them appealing Too Maybe you like both you could be bisexual Which means you like both Or maybe you are gay either which way be proud of who your are and take all the time you need orientation is a big deal for Beast porn I would not recommend that that's illegal
     
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    I just looked it up and in most states its legal to view online.
     
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    He said furry and I think he means people in suits or cartoons of animals that look a bit like humans
     
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    I believe he refers to anthromorphic character pornography, honestly I understand here. I find the fact of being with a woman appealing, but difference is that im not attract to women nor can i get romantically attached. however with guys i can and have had feelings towards them and im attracted to them. my advice is perhaps test the waters on both sides, find pictures of attractive male and female celebrity's and compare, do you feel attracted to the males? or females? or both? and the you may have your answer
     
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    Oops I minsterped Sorry to the guy that posted that I didn't understand And me I have got Romanticlly attached to females in the past but when I watch female pornography I can ogrgasm to it but it doesn't make me feel right with guys porn turns me on but in real life I've never really been Sexaully attracted to a guy in public but female I am in public it's weird ...
     
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    For the longest time I was just totally confused about what I was feeling. I was probably 16 or so when I realized that I was attracted to girls as well as guys. I bounced around in my head for the longest time trying to put a name to what I was feeling. Don't over think it and just be open to all of the possibilities.... you'll get the answer when it's time. Just be safe with your heart...
     
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    Hi. I was exactly in your shoes. Including the gay furry pornography part (used to but not anymore).
    For me I always kept the whole furry thing on the down low. If those are your fetishes, then the world doesn't need to know that. That is your business and your business only.
    I am a gay dude. But just because I'm gay doesn't mean girls aren't pretty. I just wouldn't have sex with a girl.
    I'm here if you wanna talk, since you know, I know what furry porn is. I used to be into it, I know how embarrassing it can be.
    You probably know more gay people than you think. Just saying.
    Coming out is a personal thing. You don't want to do it unless you KNOW you want to do it. Just because you're confused doesn't mean you HAVE to come out just yet; you take your time and do it when you think you're ready. (That being said, still, nobody needs to know about the furry thing.)
     
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    Hi NotaDragon, welcome to EC. If you are gay, why don't you want to be? I'm not going to tell you that gay is wonderful, but you are a mid teenage (14/15/16?), so you might B horny...don't worry. I'm a 13 year old girl who was born a boy.

    Anyway, welcome to EC.(*hug*)