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Recognising and celebrating my bisexual wife

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Proud hubby, Mar 3, 2016.

  1. Proud hubby

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    Hey all,

    So I'm really new to this world. I discovered my wife had been on LGBT+ forums and I asked about it. This led to some very confronting times and it was hard for me to work through to what I felt. Anyway the point of this thread is to how/what can I do to celebrate my wife's bisexuality? I know it was a big deal for her having me learn this and I want to do something nice for her.

    Thanks
     
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  2. Kiran

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    Great to see you here. I can't speak about another person's feelings because everybody is different but I can give you a bit of insight from bi person.

    I wouldn't like to get this blown over even if it was a big deal for me. What could be a big deal I would think that my husband would think I would be cheating on him with another lady etc. (We don't have the best press even in lgbt circles) But I think all my partners knew I was bi so I can't talk on that.

    If you really want to celebrate it somehow, how about watching a film/series with lead female bi character or going to a concert by a female bi singer etc. Those are the things that I would like. Just make sure the character won't be stereotypical. Or buy her a book etc. But I think doing something together would be better.

    Cheers.
     
  3. Proud hubby

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    I had a range of crazy thoughts but I'm okay. Can you recommend any books/films?

    Thanks