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Hello EC,

I honestly and truly want to help anyone whos out there struggling with any sort of coming our problems, family problems, or whatever it may be. I know what is like to be closeted all throughout high school in a fiercely anti-gay environment, have family and friends your not sure about coming out to, ive had the bad reactions ive had the good reactions, ive had alot happen to me recently. I really dont want other people to have to go through the same situation as i did, because i know if someone got to me sooner, even just to listen to me vent, it would have helped alot. So please! Drop me a Private Message, a Wall Post, or even post on this thread! I really want to hear your problems, and if i can help out. Im not all knowing god or anything, but im opinionated? So please, if your struggling, feeling lonely, have second thoughts about coming out, or maybe if you want to hear my story, talk to me. I pop on and off the site all the time, i can keep a back and forth convo up with you all day

Even if you decide not to drop me a message, just know that people out there truly DO care, and want to hear your problems. (*hug*)

- Greg

 

If your going to a sleep study, im sure its for a reason right? Who knows, maybe they will be able to help. I have problems sleeping, so i take melatonin or something. Its a natural thing found in your body that helps kick-start the sleep process. Taking extra amounts helps. The thing is, ALL the lights need to be off for it to work. If you want to avoid crying yourself to sleep every night, you might need to fix the root of the problem: Why your crying. If its lonleyness, maybe you should try chatting on EC right before you sleep? It might help you feel less alone

Whatever happens tomorrow with the sleep study though, good luck! i hope you get answers (*hug*)

 

Oh my, i TOTALLY understand Like...I dunno how else to put it. Its almost like if i typed that sentence, i would have used every single word the same down to the last letter. I am so deathly depressed about being alone. It piles up with work and school and everything else until its almost so unbearable, you can do nothing but lay in your bed and sob. Im glad that the melatonin and EC are somewhat helping though! Atleast its something. I personally watch an episode of a show that makes me feel accepted and loved before i go to bed. It works WONDERS for me. Its almost fixed the sleeping problem i have. Examples would be Kathy Griffin life on the D-List, The Cho Show, or anything with pro-gay themes. For some reason when i watch Kathy Griffin i feel as if the world is not so stacked up against me. She is such a wonderful and funny person, and how gay friendly she is makes me feel so warm inside.

But yes, some people have whats called "Love by Contact". Its one of the six ways people Love. Its this study or something they did. Everyone loves via one of six different ways. Love by actions, things like buying gifts, doing chores, helping out with work. Love by words, just saying "i love you" or other compliments and such. There are a few others, but the one i have is Love by contact. I need that physical aspect to feel loved. Hugging, cuddling, kissing, holding hands, these are what make me feel not alone. This is why EC never seems to cut it for me. I need physical things.

It might help if you find something that makes you all warm and bubbly inside before you go to bed. A comforting song, a good book, comfort food, or like me an episode of a TV show. Whatever it is, it could really help. Try looking for whatever it is that will give you that feeling.

 

Short answer: Yes.

Some people need that connection, such as myself, as i somewhat explained in the comment above

 

I dunno, but you can always go back on the rule. Be honest with your friends. Tell them your a hugging person if you are one. They wont mind im sure, its not a friendship ender haha

 

RICO! Your the best Talk to me anytime baby <3