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Advice-Making up your mind?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by AngelDragonfly, Mar 21, 2016.

  1. AngelDragonfly

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    Hi guys! I'm pretty sure I'm bi, but I'm just wonderful and wondering if I ever did change my mind and decided I'm straight, is there a graceful way to renounce being bi? Not that I want to, but has anybody actually done that, or have any thoughts on this? Thx if you have any advice or thoughts you share on this! (&&&):icon_bigg

    The thing is............well, yeah, just wondering so if this ever happens to me, I can handle it gracefully. Besides, a friend is going through a similar (but not quite the same) situation.
     
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    Why would you want to do that?

    If you decide you aren't attracted to women anymore you can simply... not date them?
     
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    ^What they said... Sexuality is not stagnant either. I have gone through points where I would show up on a kinsey scale at 2 and times that I would be a 4. Being bisexual just means that you have the *possibility* of being attracted to either gender, not that you are interested in both all the time. (I can say that I am not interested in anyone besides my boyfriend at this time, but when I was dating my ex-girlfriend I was only interested in her.) No need to change how you identify based on your feelings at a given time.