So my family is Catholic and they are very old school. I was wondering for advice on how to come out to them when I decide to come out to them. They want to raise me a certain way but I am breaking all their stereotypes. I am a part of the stereotypes that they don't wan me to be associated with. I was thinking about coming out in a letter. But I don't know if it's the best thing after considering how they react to letters from family.