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How to drop hints

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Conquistar, May 2, 2016.

  1. Conquistar

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    Can people please help me with dropping hints about sexuality. Subtle hints, nothing like, I like hotdogs and sausages and won't eat vagina shaped food.
     
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    It's so vulgar XDD You could speak about an actor that you like, that you *REALLY* likes..maybe Xd
     
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    I don't know why droping hints, you should just come out to the person you want.

    Because trying to give hints with out using stereotypes, it's quite difficult, maybe you could try talking about LGBT rights.
     
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    I did drop hints for one of my Internet friends. The last one that didn't know, actually. Our whole Skype group and me kept dropping hints and it was hilarious.

    For example, he'd said something like:
    "anal?"
    "yes daddy"
    Also:
    "ur gay"
    "yes"

    I also sent him the rainbow Skype emoji quite a few times. He never really understood these hints. So one day we were all in a group call and they eventually said the words "Shadd's gay!" and he didn't believe them, and I was just blushing. I told him a couple of days later and he just said 'K.'

    Keep us updated!
     
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    -talk about celebs you find attractive a lot
    -have a screensaver/poster of a guy you find attractive
    -bring up LGBT+ current events
    -maybe make some posts on fb about LGBT+ rights or news

    ---------- Post added 2nd May 2016 at 08:46 PM ----------

    Maybe if there's a LGBT+ related club or group you've thought about joining, you could do that or get involved some way.
     
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    just tell them, they will accept you :slight_smile:
     
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    Sometimes you need to grab life by the balls.. And people too
     
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    I can't get enough of nuts. I just want to eat them everyday.
    I won't play any sport that doesn't have any balls.
    I love the postman because he gives me a daily package.
    I really want to meet Willy Wonker and his Umpa Lumpa'.
    I'm going to hang out with the 'D' (if you have a friend with a name starting with that letter)

    Perfectly 100% innocent stuff. I'm so sorry. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  9. Shadstack

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    that's it we're getting married tomorrow
     
  10. Conquistar

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    I know, I just want to drop hints.
     
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    I went on about Lea Seydoux, then made my mum watch Spectre with me just because I wanted to see her in it and then kept going on about her character. She actually asked "why are you always so interested in these female actors?" That would be a good opportunity to use the hints and turn them into a proper coming out! Except that was not my agenda - I just wanted to see Lea in the film - so I did not take the opportunity.
     
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