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A good problem to have?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by crazydog15, May 6, 2016.

  1. crazydog15

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    Gender:
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I kind of prefer coming out to straight(-ish) people instead of gay people. I've come out to a couple of straight friends of mine, and they're reactions were basically, "Oh, okay. That's nice." (Except for one friend who also awkwardly told me that he kind of likes it when men go shirtless... That was interesting...) But when I come out to gay friends, it's like they want to throw a massive party and get me laid. I don't get it. I want this to be a non-issue.

    Like I said, a good problem to have. :slight_smile:
     
  2. ineedananswer

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    Well, I was kinda forced when I had to come out, but if I was in your shoes I would tel them that I wasn't comfortable with that yet, or that I was flattered but I'd rather like to figure this all out on my own, like getting laid and stuff. But then again if you wanna get laid and you feel comfortable, then go for it!