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I don't know what to do

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Red Holt, May 17, 2016.

  1. Red Holt

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    Location:
    Texas
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Out Status:
    A few people
    For a while, I identified as agender, and then that label didn't feel right, and I found out what a demiboy/demigirl was and I decided that I identified as a demiboy, but recently I've had second thoughts, thinking that I might be trans, how do I really figure it out??
     
  2. Kasey

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    Location:
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    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I'll put it simply like this. It feels right. Some people use gender fluid or something as a stepping stone label sometimes. If you feel you want to be seen as your desired gender or have the physical dysphoria, then those are two good indications. But only you can decide for yourself. No one can do it for you. And no one can say you are or aren't trans enough.

    I wish that phrase would go away.