I am a still closeted, married, bi man. I tried telling my wife before we got married but I quickly back tracked when I saw her expression. I hope to build up the courage and tell her soon but I am nervous about her reaction. I just need some encouragement. I am terrified that my coworkers will find out. I work in a very homophobic field that makes me depend on these guys for safety. I'm pretty sure that my life could become endangered if they found out. On a positive note, I have told some of my friends and they have been really supportive.
Hi Just told my wife of 30 years I was Bi. She surprised the hell out of me by telling me she was O.K. with it. I have been terrified for years and the secrecy was tearing us apart. Now, we have never been closer. You never know. I wish I would have told her years ago. You know, you don't need to be totally out. I do not plan on that...just honest with my wife. Good luck.
