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Should I come out to my sister?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Wolfwing, Jun 8, 2016.

  1. Wolfwing

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    So I have a sister and I'm not very close to her and don't really talk to her very often. So I'm unsure if I should come out to her or not. Any advice is appreciated.
     
  2. entopen

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    Coincidentally, I'm also struggling in this position. But after a long struggle, I've decided that I will.

    Of course, we have differently thinking sisters so this may not be your answer.

    But the questions I used to figure out are:
    "Why do I need to come out to her specifically?"
    "Why am I coming out to her?"
    "Is is necessary right now?"
    "Will it make me feel better?"
    "Will she blab about it to anyone important?"
    "Am I prepared if she rejects/disowns me?"
    "Is it safe?"

    Answer these and I'm sure you'll make your decision.